I think love is the key
factor for this world. Love has its own mystery and illusions. It cannot be
defined or the definition varies in every stage of life. Starting from our
childhood before we die, we all have this question what is love! Seriously what
is love? We love our parents, siblings, other relatives, friends, pets even a
little plant in our garden. We fall in love every day via food, movie, place,
dress, computer game or might be with the way we present ourselves to this
beautiful world. Some people will disagree with me, they might claim it’s like
or affection or a simple sympathy. Even then after some time we usually claim
‘ohh, I just loved it’. I would say it is an effect of love. I think the main components
of love are trust, affection, respect, compassion, sympathy. These create the
shades in love.
Many times we wonder
aimlessly thinking about love. Whom to choose and who is important! Lot of time
I found myself alone in a bench copying the class notes. In the next moment I’m
starring on the names written in those desks. I kept my pencil moving over the
names on and on, thought that much of love is allotted for me this time. Now I
know, actually I was remembering the old time and loving those memories. I
realise if the bench was not empty, how I was suppose to find out the amount of
love was built in that time! Some time we say, ‘i don’t love you in this way, i
was thinking in other way’. I must say Love is love, there is no this way or
that way. But the amount of love might be different, do not confuse love with
relationship. You can love a person when you do not have a relationship with
him or her. All relationships are bounded by love but love is not bounded by
the relationships. Now some people might come up saying ‘what about the
relationship bonded by hatred’, well to hate a person even for a moment you
have loved that person. When you do not care about the person neither you have
a relationship or love. It’s not a crime, if love blinds you, you will run on
and on. But as soon as you realise that you cannot frame this love in a
relationship, please try to fool love! I know it’s kind of impossible. Then do
not run after love with a guilt notion! Accept all these shades with whole
heart, may be then you will be able to choose your own shade.
We have tried to define even the
colour of love. Red is the colour of love, I don’t know who made this! Those
popular card company or Valentine’s Day! I always have this question why, why
red! Not blue or green or black. It is simply red because our blood is red and
with that magical touch of love our heart becomes more active. Then we actually
turn to red. If you have to choose a colour for love, won’t you are going to
choose the favourite colour of your loved ones. If they dislike red, are you
going to appear in front of them in red? Well if you love red, then it can work
in other way. So love actually have
different colours, with time and age this colour will have its own shade. The
time and the events of our life force us to evolve and love actually changes
its shade. If you have a smooth love life irrespective of friends, family or
partner, then love with appear in bright shades in many colours. The ripples in
between different phases of life will give a very challenging shade to love.
That’s why ripples are important; they let you choose between the phases, but
never ever give up on love. Keep faith
on love.
In my school time I wrote,
L= lot of sorrow
O=Ocean of tear
V=Valley of death
E=End of life
With time this has changed and
I’m noting down the changes with different phases of my life.
